Is this Love????

The so called image of Love which is very well created by the movies we see is so very different from the real truth of what Love really is.

The incidents which i have come across just makes me wonder "What is Love?"
Is there something known as "True love " and "Fake Love" or to be more precise "Timepass Love"?
One day i was travelling in a mini bus and just overheard conversation between so called lovers (Was just sitting idle and the guy was loud..So dont blame me for overhearing ;)
All they are talking about or should i say fighting about is why did u love me....
Is this suppose to be a logical end for a fancy love story?

Next day i see a guy in the railway station literally begging to a girl and the girl seems to be least bothered....The guy is not worried as to what the rest of the world thinks about him but all that is there in his mind is to have the attention of the girl...

Oh i have heard so many flop love stories..and less of successful ones...
Blame it to my friends who never had a fairy tailormade love story...
All i heard was : how should i forget ..why me..what was my mistake......
People who once said ' You mean the world to me...i cant live without you ' ...also speak sentences like you mean nothing to me.....

Seen a complete transition from Love to Hate.....
Yet no matter how much i hear about it yet i see more and more people eager to fall in love and go thru pain.... But Why ????????????
If we long so much for such humanly Love which lasts but for a moment how much more should we long for the everlasting Love from our heavenly father..Yet we often falter in that ....How ???

Long back i had heard this saying .. ' Why do people love the person who hurts them the most '..
though i never got an answer for that but i have seen live examples of such abnormal bahaviour........
Guess a part of this is how God loves us..knowing that we are the ones who hurt HIM the most....

The realisation of this heavenly LOVE just makes me want more of it ....
And more i compare the love i give to the idealistic love of 1 corinthians : 13 i just feel it will take me ages to reach there...but atleast i know i am on the way :)

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Awesome passage :
1 Corinthians 13
Love
1If I speak in the tongues[a] of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,[b] but have not love, I gain nothing.
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9For we know in part and we prophesy in part,
10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

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